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Defeat~Five Minute Friday

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“Give all your worries and cares to God, for he care about you.” 1 Peter 5:7

I was determined not to let defeat come out the winner this time…..

Our grandsons are growing up before my eyes and with that in mind, I decided to do a guest room make-over. I always want them to be as comfortable as they can be while they’re here so this time it meant taking the double bed out and putting in two twin beds for them to sleep in. 

Now I’m not a particularly handy gal. Patience is also not one of my strong traits so usually I might start a project and then get frustrated and easily give up, throw in the towel, and like I said above, let defeat win. But not this time! As I sat surrounded by the many pieces it was going to take to put the beds together, I was intent on seeing this job through.

And so, I lugged and tugged, fastened and tightened, lifted and shifted until….ta-da….I had one bed put together! I can’t tell you how proud I was of myself and I couldn’t wait to show my husband! I am embarrassed to tell you that when I finished I found myself laid out flat, collapsed on the floor with sweat dripping down my face. It was then, that I sheepishly decided to put the second bed together the next day. 

Once I recovered a bit from my “strenuous” undertaking I excitedly sat down on the new addition to the room. That excitement was replaced with dismay when I realized the bed was a little more wibbly-wobbly than it should have been. I’d tried my best to get all the screws tightened, but alas my own strength wasn’t enough to get the job done. Thankfully, my husband came to my rescue and solved the problem I couldn’t. And when he offered to put the second bed together for me? I was glad to accept his help.

I wonder how many times I’ve done this very thing in my spiritual life? Found myself in the midst of a problem, my life in pieces before me and was determined to not let it defeat me, intent on solving the matter all by myself. Can you relate?

We know how that turns out, don’t we? My solutions can leave me wavering, unsure what to do, and so exhausting all my energy, I usually find myself down and out. Despite how hard I try, my own strength just isn’t enough.

“Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Put My yoke upon your shoulders-it might appear heavy at first, but it is perfectly fitted to your curves. Learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble of heart. When you are yoked to Me, your weary souls will find rest. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30 (The Voice)

When my better half walked into the guest room, picked up the tool, and offered to help complete the job, I was relieved. He didn’t leave me on my own to figure it out nor did he point out what I’d done wrong. He simply offered to share in the work and enable me to depend on his support to get the job done.

I’m reminded that it’s the same with Jesus. When we fail in our own attempts and finally take our problems to Him, He doesn’t say, “You’ve made your wobbly bed now lay in it.” No, He instead invites us to join with Him, to share our load, and accept His support with the promise of rest in Him as we work together. 

And here’s the part I really need to remember, maybe you do too. When we find ourselves looking at all the pieces of a situation spread out before us, not knowing how or if they will ever get put together the way they’re supposed to, and when we’ve done all we can on our own, Jesus is waiting. 

I’m learning that our own efforts serve to prove our weakness, so I’m asking myself and you, are we yoked with the One who offers to share all our burdens?  If not we need to be, as it’s only through HIS strength that our life can truly be secure. 

“I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.”
Philippians 4:13 (NLT)

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Day 1/31: Way

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31 Days of Five Minute Friday Free Writes

“The LORD replied, ‘My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.'” Exodus 33:14 (NIV)

Day 1: Way

Just down the road from my house, majestically rising from the ground, are the Seneca Rocks. Rock climbers from all over the world come to ascend their sheer fins. They can often be seen standing on the very top, silhouetted against the backdrop of only the sky. I want to make it clear, I am NOT one of them!

Thankfully, there’s another route to enjoying the view from the heights of the rocks, one designed for non-climbers like me. Many years ago I took that trail with our church youth group and while the path is easily navigated, I found the steep slope and my lack of physical fitness challenging. At the same time that I was huffing and puffing, one of our youth who had physical limitations declared she needed to rest. I knew there was NO WAY I was going to make it without stopping, so I “generously” offered to stay back with her and continue on when she was ready. And that’s what we did together: climb a bit, rest a bit, go a bit further, sit for a few minutes, start again, and then pause until we finally conquered what we didn’t think we could. 

This story is a good reminder for all of us that the same is true in life. We will face many challenges and some will leave us feeling as if there is NO  WAY we can make it to the end. The thing is, we don’t have to push through on our own huffing and puffing under the weight of it all.

“Then Jesus said, ‘Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.’”
Matthew 11:28-29 (NLT)

We all know that standing in the valley looking up at the mountaintop can feel overwhelming. The weight of our circumstance makes taking another step, let alone a step up, seem impossible. That’s when Jesus generously sits with us, offering rest when we need it the most. While still difficult, the journey becomes doable by uniting with Him, sharing the load of our worries, anxiety, grief, or whatever we face. Together, we climb a bit and rest in Him, make it a bit further and sit with Him, begin again and wait with Him until we conquer what we didn’t think we could. Where to us, there seemed to be NO WAY, He doesn’t just make one, He IS the One!

“Jesus told him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life.’”
John 14:6a (NLT)

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Tired ~ Write 28 Day Challenge

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“Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” 1 Peter 5:7 (NIV)

Tired

Meet Jinx, one of our neighborhood vagabond cats. Well, that was my name for him when he’d stop by. He was especially attracted to my bird feeders. There he’d sit, poised for action, head raised, still as a statue, focused, and that’s where he’d stay for most of his visit. It was evident Jinx felt in control of the situation. He’d keep an eye on everything around him, anticipating, thinking he was ready for whatever flew his way. The birds however, felt differently and after a while, Jinx would tire of standing guard and seek out a sunny spot to rest.

Oh my, how I’m a lot like Jinx! Always on alert, I too keep close watch on those around me. With my mind roused by what I imagine, I create scenarios of how I might need to be prepared to act. I actually fool myself into believing I have some sort of control and feel ready for whatever comes my way. Life however, feels differently. Honestly, “rehearsing disaster” and always being on guard is just exhausting. I’m tired of spending my days (and nights) that way. Any other “Jinxes” out there?

“Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty. This I declare about the LORD: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him.” Psalm 91:1-2 (NLT)

We know that troubles can swoop in on us at any time. The Psalmist is reminding us that we don’t have to let it, or the anticipation of it, leave us frozen in place. We’re not alone. We have someone to go to, our Refuge. Trusting God allows us to release our worry and find rest. 

“Then Jesus said, ‘Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
Matthew 11:29

I don’t know about you, but I’m still learning this lesson. What I am beginning to understand, is that the longer I live, and I hope the same is true for you, the more we experience what the Psalmist knew and shared. And, Ole Jinx? He prompts us to remember that when we step away from what burdens us, and seek out the Son, that’s where we’ll find a place of rest for our souls. 

 

Burden ~ Five Minute Friday

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It’s that time again! Another prompt from http://www.fiveminutefriday.com Today’s prompt is “Burden”.  I’m not sure but I think a visit with a beautiful donkey named Liza Jane set me on the path to today’s post.  Of course, it took me more than five minutes which is par for the course. If you’d like to read more about our burdens, just click on over.  You won’t be disappointed.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 (NIV) / Pixabay

Burdens are Lifted

There once was a little donkey
Who’s burden was the weight,
Of one: young, pregnant, and weary
Looking for rest for it was late.

With each step he did carry
The girl into the night.
When finally, a stable
Up ahead came into sight.

The donkey’s burden was lifted
As she slid down from her place.
Little did the donkey know
He would gaze at the Savior’s face.

There once was a little donkey
Who’s burden was a man.
Destined for this journey
Because it was God’s plan.

With each step he did carry
The man who they called King;
The people laid their cloaks down
And with praise they did sing.

The donkey’s burden was lifted
As the man slid from His place.
Little did the donkey know
He would witness God’s loving grace.

We’re like those little donkeys
With burdens, we must bear.
Step by step we travel
Beneath a load of care.

Laden, tired, weary, and worn
We struggle on our own.
Why is it that we always forget
We’re not in this alone?

Yes, our burdens they were lifted,
As Jesus left His place on high.
They were nailed with Him onto the cross
Where He died for you and I.

A baby, a man, a Savior
Once on a little donkey did ride.
His yoke is easy. His burden light.
And in His rest, we can truly abide.

 

 

Rest ~ 31/31 Days of Five Minute Free Writes

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This is the last post for 31 Days of Five Minute Free Writes at http://www.fiveminutefriday.com

It’s been a challenge and I’m amazed I made it to day 31 and only missed 3 days! Those were spent with family so I don’t regret them at all! All 28 posts are here. Just click on the “Five Minute Fridays” tab above if you’ve missed any or are just joining in. So, for the last time this month, here we go…..

Time Starts Now!

“Be still and know that I am God!” Psalm 46:10a (NLT) / Pixabay

I know this may sound a little crazy, but I have fond memories of a rest stop!  Traveling from WV to Michigan by myself with two small children could at times be, shall we say….stressful! After driving for a few hours, jittery feet, touchy-feely hands, and cranky mouths began appearing in the backseat. Thankfully, it was at about that same time we arrived at the “Welcome to Ohio” rest stop.  It became our tradition to pull off and “rest”  on every trip.  We’d use the facilities and then with the promise of stopping at the vending area on the other side of the parking lot, I’d send both kids marching (literally marching) on the path: up the hill, across the top, down again, and straight to me to get their quarters for the machines. Was there whining at times? Sure. Complaining? You bet, but we were all better off after the break from the long car trip.

This month of writing has given me at times my own share of pacing feet, wringing hands, and a negative Nellie mouth. Just about the time I was ready to give up, the Holy Spirit would send me  welcomed words and my fingers would begin to march across the keyboard. Sometimes those words took me up, down, and all around to get my point across.  Using a donkey, my gallstones, growing grass, and now a rest stop all seem to be unlikely vehicles for a blog post. I love that though! It’s a confirmation to me that the message is God’s and not mine.

Driving to Michigan, I still smile as I pass that rest stop.  I’m alone in the car now but at times I can still hear little voices in the back seat telling me when to turn off to stop. Like those car breaks of old, I’m ready for a break from this month of writing.  I truly enjoyed this challenge and  I  cannot express my gratitude to each of you who’ve read my wanderings of words. You’ll never know what it has meant to me.

Time’s Done…..But I’m Not

It’s my prayer that somewhere in the midst of these 28 days of quick writes you’ve found something to encourage you. While my intentions were always to share my writing with you, the reality is that each and every post has taught me a lesson I’ve needed!  As my friend, LaVonne always says, “The Big Guy sends you what you need when you need it!”

I’m not sure what’s coming next, but for now I’m ready to stop for a bit and with fond memories, rest.