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Youth~Five Minute Friday

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“They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green” Psalm 92:14 (NIV)

Yesterday was “Grandparents Day.” I thought a lot about mine throughout the day and have concluded, not for the first time, that where my grandparents are concerned, I wish as a youth I’d known then, what I do now. 

There was so much I enjoyed about visiting my Grandmas and Grandpas. I cling to those wonderful memories. But, listening to all the stories from the “olden days” and their lives then they loved to share with me when I was younger, was not among my favorite things. 

Yes, I’d sit dutifully and appear to listen, but my mind’s eye was rolling and I’d only partially pay attention telling myself that I’d heard them all before. And their advice? It didn’t seem they could possibly know about my life. Oh, how sorry I am all these years later!

I can’t count the times I’ve wished I could sit down and talk something through with my Grandma to get her perspective and guidance. Or ask my Grandpa to tell me again about his experiences as a teacher in a one room school house or to explain more about how our family tree all fits together (which was something he loved to do.) A treasured recipe, where a certain photo of us was taken, curiosity about what they’d think about the happenings in our crazy world and so much more to wonder about. Sadly, like many of us I suspect, I’ve missed out on receiving rich wisdom that was generously offered to me but unfortunately I didn’t recognize then, its importance in my life.

Guess what? As a child of God, I’ve been guilty of having the exact same reaction to His Life story. When it comes to the Bible there’ve been times when I’ve only partially paid attention because I’d heard all those familiar accounts many times before. There have been periods in my own life when I’ve even questioned what the verses could possibly have to offer about what I was going through. Just like with my Grandparents, I’ve lost out because I have not spent more time listening and learning. You too? For us, God also generously offers us His priceless wisdom and yet, we don’t always recognize how vital it is to living our very best life.

Thankfully, it’s not too late to learn from our mistakes. When we need perspective and guidance, we can go to His Word. If we want to learn from past experiences? We can read about the people who actually walked and talked with Jesus. Need a recipe for good living, to relive an important event, or wonder what in the world God would have us do in the midst of this crazy world? It’s all at our fingertips and even better, as we spend important time taking it all in, it’s being written our my hearts.

“For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.”
Romans 15:4 (NIV)

Now as a grandparent myself, I find that I enjoy telling stories from my past with my young grandsons; but I desire even more to give them hope so it’s important is that they see me immersed in all the Bible has to offer and also, that I not only share those ancient but not outdated Words with the boys, but that they see me living them, too. And one day, I pray they’ll share that with others.

“Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, my God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your mighty acts to all who are to come.”
Psalm 71:18 (NIV)

 

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If You Could ~ Five Minute Friday

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“The glory of the young is their strength; the gray hair of experience is the splendor of the old.” Proverbs 20:29 (NLT)

If You Could

Have you ever answered one of those fun survey questions like:  “What one thing would you change about yourself?” or “Which superpower would you want to have and why?” Recently, I came across a post that asked, “If you could sit down and have a talk with someone who’s no longer living, who would it be?” As usual, I began pondering.

Many interesting people came to mind: authors, world-changers, musicians, and the like, however, those choices were fleeting. Very quickly, I knew exactly who I’d love to have one more conversation with, my grandparents!

I’m very blessed that when I was young, we moved to be closer to my grandpa and grandmas. Many weekend visits, holiday dinners, and special occasions were spent with them. Family stories and moments in their histories were often shared, unfortunately, back then I didn’t appreciate the privilege and importance of hearing them as much as I should have. (I’m pretty sure eye-rolling was involved.)

Once I was grown and moved away, our time together became limited, but bringing my own children “home” to my grandparents was always a precious time! The funny thing was, as my little ones listened to those same old stories I’d heard over and over again, they suddenly began to grab my attention, too. Those small glimpses into their lives are such gifts to me now!

“Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?”
Job 12:12 (NIV)

Time passes quickly and my grandparents have been in their Heavenly home for many years. I’m so thankful for the time I had with them, but oh, how I wish I’d soaked up every word they had to offer when I had the chance! Now that I’m a “MiMi” myself, I’m finally beginning to fully understand the value of the shared experiences of those who’ve gone before us.

So, that’s my answer. If I could, I’d sit at the table for as long as possible with my Grandma P. and my Grandpa and Grandma Stevens, and I would listen, really listen, as they offered their insight, advice, and wisdom about life. I most certainly would gain much!

“Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding.” 
Proverbs 3:13 (NLT)

Tomorrow is Grandparents Day. If you are blessed to have yours still here with you, let them know how important they are to you and take every opportunity to learn from them now while you can, and not only “If you could…..”

“Get all the advice and instruction you can, so you will be wise the rest of your life.”
Proverbs 19:20 (NLT)

I’m joining with the other writers at http://www.fiveminutefriday.com . The prompt this week is “Could”. I’m looking forward to reading all the different perspectives on one word. You can read them too. Just click on the link above. I am always so very grateful for your presence here. I’d love for you to share some of your favorite grandparent memories in the comments. I’ll leave a couple of mine there as well. Be Well and God Bless You!